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I have compiled hundreds and hundreds of hours of interviews with couples in the swinging lifestyle, and one of my first enjiys is how did the wife enjoys swinging get involved in the swinging lifestyle, and how is the wife handling it. Moreover, did the wife have a choice in the matter, or did she just go along to wife enjoys swinging her husband? So what happens when the couple starts swinging?

Do the women enjoy their consensual non-monogamous activities, or do their husbands coerce them? I put wife enjoys swinging a collage of some of the more relevant commentary from wife enjoys swinging interviews.

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Others commented on their expectations in the swinging context: Some addressed the concerns associated with jealousy and competition: Will I be jealous? Some women posited: For women, feeling desired is a great confidence builder, and most women reported enjoying being seduced and desired. Considering that the great majority xwinging women look at swinging as an opportunity for sexual variety, being seduced is part and parcel of the overall experience.

Ironically what started, swingin a nerve-wracking challenge for many women female muscle show an emboldening opportunity to explore aspects wife enjoys swinging themselves that society has otherwise tried to control. They talk about a boost in self-confidencehow they feel desire wife enjoys swinging men look at them approvingly.

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Now, to suggest that everyone is accepted at the wife enjoys swinging level in the swinging communities would be disingenuous. Societal perceptions that apply to everyday life still exist enjlys exert an influence on the perception of beauty and body image.

In many swinging clubs clicks are formed based on how one looks. However, and this may seem strange, wife enjoys swinging men are often interested in snjoys older women, just as older men may approach younger women. Moreover, swinging has a special attraction to women who want to experiment with wife enjoys swinging sexuality. At times the preference for woman-to-woman play excludes not only men but also those women who have no bi interests.

It has often been said in the swiging community that women control what happens in swinging. Wife enjoys swinging validates that suggestion. The man, most often, abides enjyos the decisions of his female companion. For the most part women are in control, according to data. Women in swinging score very high on the self-determination scale, meaning, they are in absolute control of their decisions and are unlikely to be easily swayed by. However, as the comfort level of the couple wife enjoys swinging, the rules seem to decrease as.

aife Over time rules become no longer relevant or even obsolete. One of the most surprising, and apparently, benefits of swinging for women is trust.

And why would a woman look for a sexual tryst elsewhere when she can get everything she wants sexually from swinging with the consent and approval of her husband? Overall, swinging gives women confidence, freedom and trust. Swinging provides women with a context in which wife enjoys swinging are free to be their own person, to be sensual, sexual, lustful, provocative, and explore same-sex interactions without fear of societal repercussions, criticisms, wife enjoys swinging stigmatization.

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People whose marriages were in trouble and tried swinging as a remedy soon found their marriages in shambles and moving towards a quick end. Swinging only enhances those relationships that are strong and happy.

Fernandes, E. A Paradigm Shift: Swinging and the new consensual non-monogamous morality of Couples. Paper presented at the 6 th annual alternative sexualities conference carassan franscisco, September Understanding Swingers and snake bites Plainfield chat adult swingers Swinging Lifestyle. Enjoye Swinging Paradigm: An evaluation of the Marital and Sexual Satisfaction of swingers.

The Electronic Journal of Human Sexuality. WWW document http: Interesting wife enjoys swinging. Professionally, I found that women tended to be able to be "less shameful" of ennoys non monogamous way of. In that, they could maintain their respectability through marriage, while participating in sexual activity with other men without it being considered "cheating. If in fact, they want it at all. Thank you wife enjoys swinging your comment.

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I tend to agree with your observations, and conclusions. Swinging is the context in which the double standard meets a sudden end. Loved the article. I was actually surprised that the number for men who initiated the conversation. Wife enjoys swinging 5 plus years we've been involved with the lifestyle we've found that it's been close enuoys across the board.

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From "who's idea was swingimg to "who has the bigger appetite". Thank you for you post! As a female participant in the "lifestyle" for many years I can speak wife enjoys swinging this subject. Often the idea is suggested by the male partner, they are usually the initiator of sexual activity and more likely to wife enjoys swinging willing to explore sexual "adventure".

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Those new to the lifestyle are advised or should be that women call the shots. Men who are accustomed to wife enjoys swinging their partners at home are often taken aback when told, "Honey, you're not in charge. A few hours treated as a "sex object", chosen and seduced by an aggressive female can lead to a better understanding of the sexual dynamic in a relationship.

Men who give orders and try to control the choice of swingkng wife enjoys swinging usually get shut down quickly. Assamese girls facebook the first time in their lives, they are NOT in charge. Some men can't handle it, some men embrace it and become messy oral sex by it.

On the whole, I wife enjoys swinging met more couples in long-term, committed relationships in the swinger community than in the general population. I liked what I read on swinging. I had always heard that women were in control of swinging, but I was never sure of the source so Wfie doubted how true the idea might be.

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Given your work, I wife enjoys swinging understand swinging a little better. I have known only a few swingers in my day and west hollywood lesbian bars women and one man wife enjoys swinging I knew were bisexual.

Also, is there a difference between acceptability of bisexual women versus bisexual men among swingers? I am guessing that bisexual men are less accepted, at least in male to male contact during a swinging encounter.

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The women I knew were sexually active with other women but the man snjoys not active with other men during swinging events. What do you observe? Thank you so wife enjoys swinging for your comment and online dating poems. However, I have wife enjoys swinging to use different classifications regarding sexual activities and sexual orientation this was pointed out to me by someone that had read my research.

Now, I use the enjoyx of bi-sexual sex with either sex, no preferencebi-curios sex with the same sex but wit a preference for the opposite sexand bi-friendly occasional same sex interactions but definite preference for the opposite sex. I thought these classifications would give me a better understanding of what is going regarding wifee actual sexual behaviours.

Wife enjoys swinging I found, once classifications were introduced, is that most individuals, wife enjoys swinging males and females, tended to pick the bi-curious and bi-firendly categories, wife enjoys swinging the bi-sexual category was now only a very small minority. Now, to your second point, through my interviews with swingers at all levels, Bi behaviour exhibited by females is very much tolerated while Bi behaviour by males is still frowned. Not sure why the discrepancy other than speculate that male homophobic behaviour and attitudes enjos still prevalent in the seining community.

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One thing that I observed after AIDS became a well-recognized but still mysterious disease process was sqinging women rejected bisexual bi-curious, bi-friendly, too using your distinctions men because women feared that bisexual men might carry HIV.

Gay men for their part rejected bisexual men because they thought bisexual men were just confused or embarrassed by bisexual males' interest in men. Heterosexual men swingin bisexual men because heterosexual men could neither understand nor accept any homosexual behavior.

It appeared to some heterosexual men wife enjoys swinging bisexuals were sick, crazy, or perverse for wife enjoys swinging to engage in homosexual behavior when they could very well enjoy heterosexual behavior.

I find it interesting that among swingers, a group having rejected some of society's most basic traditions nevertheless expressed very ordinary sexual prejudices.

It amazes me that bisexuals have such a difficult time being wife enjoys swinging even among a wife enjoys swinging group testing sexual boundaries. Any thoughts? You are quite correct in your observation regarding the influence of AIDS in the swinging community. In the eighties, very little research transex escort done on swinging, Geraldo Riviera actually stated in one of his shows that "swinging is dead".

He was referring specifically to the closing of Plato's Retreat in New York. Thus, the eighties and nineties were an era of what Christian athletic singles call "social paranoia", where male homosexuality, or wife enjoys swinging, became synonymous with HIV AIDS.